Lotus Rising

Tag: self-esteem

  • Should VS Want. How The Words We Choose Matter

    Should VS Want. How The Words We Choose Matter

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    Salina Pounds
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      The word should is such a binding word. When we use these words they are commanding and when we don’t do our should’s we feel like a failure. It’s such a harsh way of speaking to ourselves. I challenge you to replace the words ‘should’ with ‘want’ in every scenario.   Can you see how…

  • Putting Yourself First Is Not Selfish

    Putting Yourself First Is Not Selfish

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    Putting yourself first is not selfish. Saying to someone “Hey I need (insert need here),” and they get upset. That negative emotion they are experiencing is for them to hold, not for you. You are not responsible for how they respond. That is not yours to carry or feel guilty for.  If establishing boundaries with…