I am a huge advocate for self-care. You have to take care of yourself first before you can truly care for someone else. Like they say on airplanes, put your mask on first before helping someone else. Why? because you can’t help someone effectively if you can’t breathe. Self-care doesn’t mean taking a bubble bath every night. It means doing the things that give you a charge and letting go of the unnecessary things that drain your battery.
Consider you start your day with 100% charge but as time goes on you give little pieces of yourself to work, school, family, friends, etc. As the hours go on that battery is getting low and when it gets too low you become less helpful/effective/happy so it’s time to recharge. I can help teach how to recharge your battery and practice self-care throughout the day.
Self-care ideas in less than 5 minutes
deep breathing
stretching
walking around your home or office
Drinking water
eating a snack
looking up funny memes
smell something nice
saying no to something you don’t have time for
asking for help
write down 3 things you are grateful for
and more!
Self-care ideas that take more than 5 minutes
going to therapy
scheduling and attending a doctors appointment
hanging out with friends
going for a walk outside
exercising
saying no to something you don’t have time for
asking for help
cooking a healthy meal
reading a book you enjoy
waking up early to have alone time
meditation
& more!
Self-care is anything you do that gives you a charge. Most importantly self-care is not selfish.